Difficult Emotion Process

My coadjutor and her boyfriend broke up months ago and I besides got modify with the break-up because Ive excessively create friends with the ex-boyfriend. My friend has started to see different jackasss and the ex-boyfriend is seeing other(a)(a) young womans too. The thing is, the ex-boyfriend, although he is dating with other girls, isnt over my friend provided and he is using me as his tide over to his ex-girlfriend. That is fine with me. My role would be to update the ex-boyfriend with how the girl is doing.As a friend, I had become a confidante of the girl and she would tell me exclusively so I sack out that the girl is re every(prenominal)y over her ex-boyfriend and has started to like the confuse fun he met in one of her chemis sift class. Then, world a friend of the ex-boyfriend, I come learned that he eer commends of my friend and still hoping that they could come to satisfaction and eventu tout ensembley describe back together. I concept that the ex -boyfriend should know that there wint be a chip chance between them. I postulate already given him the idea and then, he valued me to tell everything intimately what I know of his ex and the current of his ex.I did and this make him confront the ex-girlfriend. Now, my friend is upset at me. Part of me mat up guilty and the other makes me mean that I shouldnt for I am just being a friend to both of them. 2. Ive thought most our friendship and I tangle horrible of how it is right now. I felt its shouldnt how friendships should end and Ive thought friendships shouldnt be ruined like that. Being in the like school, we can avoid passing from individually one other but we cant avoid seeing each other. On our free while, I asked her if she wanted to chat and she utter yes.Maybe, she felt the same as I did and perhaps, she also wanted to take to task about it. I think she misses me too I told her that I regret not having to explain to her right away and that we finish no t talk of the town to each other. I explained to her that I felt guilty about having to disclose her dating with another guy to her ex-boyfriend, but, I think as a friend to her ex, I should encourage him run on and by telling him about her new guy this would make him think. I also told her that I think she should also tell this to his ex so the ex could start moving on.I said that when she got upset, I also felt the same towards her because I couldnt understand why she would olfaction like that and I couldnt sopor thinking of what she is thinking about me. I said that I also had gage thoughts of telling it all to the ex. I also told her that I felt I do not deserve the cold intercession Ive been receiving from her for days because I think I did the right thing to help the ex and that will not do her any harm and that there is no point of keeping the dating in secret from her ex.And if she felt that Im not supposed to befriend the ex, it isnt right. I told her that I wanted t o get things back the way it was before all those things happened. 3. Ive had confrontations before and every time it is so difficult to go through. I watched her reactions and I saw that she is also saddened. She was sense of hearing intently. When it came to the part where I told her of how I do not deserve her kind of treatment, she cover her face and started to cry, but she kept on listening. I think I did all the talking at our conversation.She was so quiet. It was very awkward. I thought, at that moment, I was hurting her. Just to end the silence, I asked her if she wanted to buy a soda. She turned to me and said she missed me. I dont know if things between us is very okay right now, but maybe it would. I hope it would. Maybe ulterior we could try fixing things. I think whats important is that we start talking to each other again. Later, I would try to talk her through trusting each other again. 4. The skill was useful, although I wasnt perfectly sure if I followed it all .But it reminded me of legion(predicate) points that would help me and it did help me. The timing was perfect, I wasnt telling any non-sense that could have hurt her more. I think it helped me make my friend understand how I felt. I was so cautious with my speech and because I know her well, I know which words could hurt her and which wont and how I should tell her. I just know how she would take things based on how it is being delivered to her. I didnt get a great deal response from her at that time, but, later, shell talk.